Whenever something disintegrates, new components are formed. Similarly, when something breaks inside you, know that it is for shaping you into a better human being and a more obedient servant of Allah. When you lose love, trust or hope in people, try to distance yourself from dunya a bit. Accept the fact that in fact all expectations should be associated with Allah Subhanahu wa Taa’la alone. Let the hurt take over. Let the false ties break. Establish a new relationship, the everlasting one … with your Creator. Make new friendships, with people who love you for the Sake of Allah and whom you can claim to love for the Sake of Him alone.
You will realize that the hurt was temporary. That you were infact made to fall, to rise and reach new heights of Emaan. You were led to be broken in order to mend your relationship with Allah. Your expectations failed you, so you could love people without expectations, only for the Sake of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala.
Remind yourself that it is okay to feel shattered, broken and incomplete, once in a while! If each one of us were to feel satisfied, healed and whole at all times, who would beg Allah for His Mercy and Compassion? It is alright if you feel a void in your chest. That sense of vacuum within, will drive you to drop down on your fours humbled, repenting and begging for His forgiveness, Insha’Allah.
Have complete Tawakkal in Allah. He only intends to take something away from you to replace it with something that He knows, is certainly better for you, but only if you have patience and faith!
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